I just love these soulful conversations with my dear friend, M. Tonight we talked about a post that resonated with me about monogamy. I will preface that my comments are strictly my own and not judging anyone who doesn’t subscribe to it. Francesco Amati(IG handle @mystic.mentor) posted that “when you awaken to who you truly are and committed to the depths of you-mentally, emotionally, sexually, and spiritually that you have experienced your wholeness. It doesn’t make sense to desire more than one person. That you aren’t fulfilled with being you and that you need more beyond yourself to experience wholeness.” I could not agree more.

As M and I were talking, I told her I recalled telling Bubba(ex) when he met the one for him, he would change. Not necessarily change for the other person but for himself. How he would want to be his best self and that change he makes is more for himself so that he can align with the other person. I think when you meet the one that you choose , they hold the mirror up like Jack did for me. I never cared what people thought of me but with Jack I do. When around him, he inspires me to be my best self.

If I could tell him, it would be for me, he is enough. He doesn’t have to be anything or anyone more than what he is today other than he should give himself a break. I told M that I hope one day he has someone who loves him for just him and who makes him feel safe and he in turn feels whole.  M reminded me “he does, you love him.” I do..  Why? Because what’s not to love about him. He is far more than enough..