Today I had a fun filled day with my cousin. He asked me if I thought love is blind and has me hooked to this Netflix show named the same thing. We made my aunt watch and she thought we were crazy lol 

My cousin and I had an interesting conversation. He explained the concept of the show to me. Do I believe you could love someone without meeting them? My aunt right away said for her she would need to see the person. Having gone through the experiences of late, I looked at him and said I do believe you can have a connection with someone who you haven’t met. Right now my situation is a little different in that I question can you love someone romantically without having a full fledge relationship. My cousin looked at me so intuitively as to say I hear you.

So while I do believe it is possible to form a connection with someone without seeing them and even possibly falling in love, I don’t think we can neatly put the love is blind into a nice consumable box. When looking up the definition this concept is described as loving someone that you can’t see their faults. Isn’t that loving unconditionally? Where no matter what, you love them despite their faults?

Or perhaps in less healthier situations one can argue that you “love” a person despite their faults because it is rooted in how you self love. I think at some point in our lives we all have been stuck in this space. You accept this low vibration because you are low vibration. My hope for you is that you feel strong enough to realize that this situation is not unconditional love.

I recently told my friend that I don’t think I’ve ever experienced unconditional love except with the kids. It is a concept I’d love to experience.. Here’s to my 11/11 wish. That we all experience happiness and love so pure and great that matches how we should see ourselves. More importantly that we treat ourselves at the highest level with the purest of love to allow for this unconditional love to arrive.